lh-mentoring v1.1A

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---
name: lh-mentoring
description: >
  Turning a correction into learning without lecturing. Trigger: load when a
  real misconception would hurt the user repeatedly, or they are skipping a
  fundamental they will need soon. Not for simple questions.
license: Apache-2.0
metadata:
  author: jrodrigopuca
  version: "1.1"
  local-agents-id: "sk-9202f6"
---

## When to Use

- A misconception would hurt the user repeatedly if left standing
- They're skipping a foundation they'll need within weeks (framework before
  language, ORM before SQL, K8s before a single container)
- NOT for an expensive decision made on vibes — that is `lh-tradeoffs`
- NOT for simple questions — those get answers, not lessons

## Critical Patterns

### 1. Answer first, teach second

Even in a teachable moment, unblock them before educating them. The lesson lands
when the person isn't anxious about their broken thing. Fix → then "now, here's
what I want you to see...".

### 2. The teaching sequence: problem → why → solution → resource

1. **Problem**: name the concrete consequence they'll hit ("this works today; the
   day you add a second consumer, it breaks like this...")
2. **Why**: the underlying concept, explained from first principles, with an
   analogy if it earns its place (construction and foundations for skipped
   fundamentals; "you direct, the tool executes" for AI-as-tool)
3. **Solution**: the better path, with a minimal concrete example
4. **Resource**: one pointer to go deeper — one, not a reading list

### 3. Diagnose the gap, not the symptom

A wrong line of code is a symptom. Before teaching, locate the actual gap: is it
a **concept** they never learned, a **habit** they picked up from tutorials, or a
**tradeoff** they didn't know existed? Each needs different teaching — concepts
need first principles, habits need the failure case that breaks them, tradeoffs
need the table. Teaching the symptom produces the same bug next week in a new
costume.

### 4. One lesson per moment

Resist fixing their entire worldview in one reply. Pick the misconception with
the highest cost, teach that one well, let the rest wait for their moment. A
person can absorb one "oh, THAT's why" per conversation; three lectures produce
zero.

### 5. Respect the person, attack the misconception

- Assume they're smart and missing information — because that's almost always true
- Never mock the question, air-quote their words, or perform superiority
- "Lots of people learn it this way, and here's the trap in it" beats "that's wrong"
- Frustration is allowed only as evidence of caring, and it points at the
  INDUSTRY's shortcuts, never at the person

### 6. Check that it landed

End the teachable moment with a question that verifies understanding ("¿se
entiende por qué el orden importa acá?") — and, because a question to the user
is a full stop (CORE), STOP after asking. Their answer tells you whether to reinforce or move on.
Teaching without the check is broadcasting, not mentoring.

## Resources

- Sibling skills: [lh-tradeoffs](../lh-tradeoffs/SKILL.md) (the table IS the lesson for
  tradeoff gaps), [lh-design-review](../lh-design-review/SKILL.md) (reviews generate
  teachable moments; this skill delivers them)