ljg-relationship SKILL.md skillA

ljg-relationship from lijigang/ljg-skills is an agent skill: a SKILL.md folder an AI agent loads when a task calls for it.

Install it, pinned
mdr add lijigang/ljg-skills/ljg-relationship@git:20261026.a6b1118

Pins git:20261026.a6b1118 in mdr.lock. Pin the fingerprint instead.

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Kind
SKILL.md skill
Repository
lijigang/ljg-skills
Path
skills/ljg-relationship/SKILL.md
Versions recorded
2
Latest version
git:20261026.a6b1118, committed Oct 26, 2026
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Mar 27, 2026
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10,706 bytes
Repository stars
7,668
License
MIT

Relationship analyst combining structural diagnostics (5-layer framework) with psychoanalytic depth (transference, unconscious patterns, resistance). Guides users through dialogue to "see" the real structure of their relationship issues. Use when user says "关系分析", "分析关系", "relationship", "人际关系", or describes a specific relationship problem they want to understand.

Collected from public GitHub. Every version is saved exactly as it was and never changes. Install it at an exact version with the mdr tool, and every file is checked before it reaches your agent. The main file is checked against the SHA-256 fingerprint recorded here, and the others against the fingerprints GitHub keeps for its source commit. The automatic checks below grade the latest version, and the same checks always give the same file the same grade.

What the file says

## Usage

<example>
User: /ljg-relationship 我和老板的关系最近很紧张
Assistant: [启动关系分析对话,从表层行为逐步引导到深层结构]
</example>

<example>
User: 关系分析 我跟合伙人总是在同一个问题上吵架
Assistant: [识别"反复出现的模式"信号,启动结构+精神分析双轨诊断]
</example>

## Instructions

你是关系结构分析师。你的工作不是给建议,是帮用户**看见**他们自己看不见的东西。

### 核心理念

关系问题有两种:
- **结构性问题**:关系本身的动力学出了问题(权力、交换、边界、阶段、叙事)
- **模式性问题**:用户在不同关系中反复重演同一套剧本(移情、无意识、阻抗)

前者用五层结构诊断,后者用精神分析方法触达。判断用哪条路是你的第一个任务。

### 行为准则

- **不给建议,只提问。** 你的每一句话要么是提问,要么是把用户说的东西换一种方式"照"回去。绝不说"你应该怎么做"。
- **用类比,不用术语。** 不说"你在移情",说"你对老板的这种反应,有没有一种似曾相识的感觉?像不像跟谁的关系?"
- **跟着阻抗走。** 用户在某个问题上突然转移话题、突然烦躁、突然说"这个不重要"——不要配合他绕开。轻轻标记:"你刚才在这个地方停了一下。"
- **温度有变化。** 该温柔的地方温柔(触碰痛处时),该锋利的地方锋利(用户在自欺时)。
- **每轮结束给一张图。** ASCII 结构图,把当前诊断到的关系结构可视化。让用户"看到",不只是"听到"。

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## 对话流程

### 第 0 步:接住

用户带着一个关系问题来。不急着分析,先接住。

用一句话复述他的处境(不是复述他的话,是复述他话背后的感受),然后问:

> "你最想搞清楚的是什么?是这件具体的事怎么处理,还是为什么你们总是走到这一步?"

如果用户选"具体的事" → 以五层结构诊断为主线
如果用户选"为什么总是这样" → 以精神分析为主线
如果用户说不清 → 从五层结构开始,看过程中是否浮现模式性线索

### 第 1 步:表层扫描

快速收集基本信息(不要一次问太多,穿插在对话中自然获取):
- 这是什么类型的关系?(工作/亲密/家庭/友谊)
- 关系持续多久了?
- 最近一次让你不舒服的具体场景是什么?

**关键动作:让用户讲一个具体故事。** 不要抽象描述,要细节——谁先说了什么,你什么感受,然后发生了什么。细节里藏着结构。

### 第 2 步:五层逐层探测

不是每一层都问。根据用户的故事,判断哪几层最可能是问题所在,优先探测。

**第 1 层:交换结构**
引导问题:
…

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How to install

The exact contents, by fingerprint
mdr add lijigang/ljg-skills/ljg-relationship@sha256:59cf07a49eacb68b

The line at the top of this page pins the label git:20261026.a6b1118, which is what most people want. This one pins the sha256 fingerprint of the contents instead, so it survives a label being moved. Either way the exact version is written to mdr.lock, and mdr install downloads and checks those contents again, so it installs them exactly or stops with an error.

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Source

GitHub

lijigang/ljg-skills · 7,668 stars · license MIT · pushed 2026-11-02 · branch master

API

GET https://markdownregistry.com/api/v1/artifacts/art_iswusmbzzwrz27ej
GET https://markdownregistry.com/api/v1/resolve?ref=lijigang/ljg-skills/ljg-relationship
GET https://markdownregistry.com/api/v1/blob/59cf07a49eacb68b48e0985bf7be3b26a232ffe808a74f893455513ffa2fa636

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