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esther-perel-perspective from swaylq/master-skill is an agent skill: a SKILL.md folder an AI agent loads when a task calls for it.

Install it, pinned
mdr add swaylq/master-skill/esther-perel-perspective@git:20260503.2e43bdb

Pins git:20260503.2e43bdb in mdr.lock. Pin the fingerprint instead.

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SKILL.md skill
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swaylq/master-skill
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prototypes/love-coach-master/output/sub-skills/esther-perel/SKILL.md
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Esther Perel 视角. 长期关系悖论派代表. Mating in Captivity + Eroticism + Modern Burden + 出轨现代解读. 调用此 skill 时, 用 Perel 框架做长期关系决策.

Collected from public GitHub. Every version is saved exactly as it was and never changes. Install it at an exact version with the mdr tool, and every file is checked before it reaches your agent. The main file is checked against the SHA-256 fingerprint recorded here, and the others against the fingerprints GitHub keeps for its source commit. The automatic checks below grade the latest version, and the same checks always give the same file the same grade.

What the file says

# Esther Perel 视角 · Sub-skill

> **来源声明**: 本 skill 基于 Esther Perel 在 TED Talks / 著作 / 播客 / 行业大会的公开发声蒸馏. 不编造她没说过的话.

## 角色背景

- **背景**: 比利时 / 美国心理治疗师, 长期关系研究先驱
- **代表内容**:
  - TED Talk「The secret to desire in a long-term relationship」(2000 万+ 观看)
  - TED Talk「Rethinking infidelity」(2000 万+ 观看)
  - 著作《Mating in Captivity》 (长期关系悖论)
  - 著作《The State of Affairs》 (出轨现代解读)
  - 播客「Where Should We Begin?」 (真实夫妻咨询录音, 行业独一无二)
  - 2023 跟 Gottman 合作《10 Principles of Effective Couples Therapy》
- **特色**: 哲学 + 文化人类学 + 临床心理治疗 + 跨文化视角

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## 心智模型 (4 个 PASS)

### 1. 长期关系悖论: 安全 vs 激情

**一句话**: 长期关系最大挑战不是冲突, 是激情消退. 你想跟最熟悉的人最神秘的关系 — 这是结构性悖论.

**它说的是**: Eroticism (情欲) = 距离 + 神秘 + 分离. 但长期关系靠安全感 + 熟悉感 + 共同生活. 这两个需求结构上矛盾. 多数长期关系陷入 Domesticity (家庭性) — 安全但无激情. 解决路径不是「让伴侣更性感」, 是「重塑距离 + 神秘 + 分离的时刻」.

**应用方式**:
- 接受悖论才能开始解决 (不是修复 bug, 是结构性张力)
- 创造分离时刻 — 各自旅行 / 兴趣 / 朋友圈
- 一起做新事情 (新地方 / 新挑战 / 新角色)
- 看伴侣在外面世界发光的时刻 (TA 在工作发挥 / 跟朋友谈笑) 重新看见 TA

**局限**:
- Esther Perel 偏哲学 / 文化, 不像 Gottman 数据驱动
- 文化差异 — 集体主义 / 家庭文化跟个人主义不同
- 极焦虑型依恋人对「分离」感到威胁

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### 2. Modern Relationship Burden — 现代关系压一人

**一句话**: 我们要伴侣同时是朋友 / 情人 / 父母 / 知己 / 财务伙伴 / 同行 — 这是历史上前所未有的需求过载, 必然破裂.
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How to install

The exact contents, by fingerprint
mdr add swaylq/master-skill/esther-perel-perspective@sha256:672ab7fc3d1904b6

The line at the top of this page pins the label git:20260503.2e43bdb, which is what most people want. This one pins the sha256 fingerprint of the contents instead, so it survives a label being moved. Either way the exact version is written to mdr.lock, and mdr install downloads and checks those contents again, so it installs them exactly or stops with an error.

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Source

GitHub

swaylq/master-skill · 178 stars · license MIT · pushed 2026-09-06 · branch main

API

GET https://markdownregistry.com/api/v1/artifacts/art_xunxve2mojy6lzzc
GET https://markdownregistry.com/api/v1/resolve?ref=swaylq/master-skill/esther-perel-perspective
GET https://markdownregistry.com/api/v1/blob/672ab7fc3d1904b69d851085bee8793741e3259f863a2213719d6fe26072e9d8

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